THE DYNAMIC OF MAN TO MAN TOUCHING

When a man touches another man, there is an erotic dynamic that is quite different from a female to male touch. Why is this?

I'm Rik Rrancis an internationally experienced masseur. I specialise in man to man and gay massage in Auckland. I can be reached on 021 109 1058 and 550 4287.

To answer the question. The reason man to man touching is so rewarding is because the man touching, in this case the masseur, understands what his male client is feeling because he has the same response when touched in each specific area himself. To put it another way, a female can't understand a man's body because it is not part of her experience. For this reason man to man touching during a sensual massage, is more rewarding for the client. I also really enjoy using my hands to relax my clients in a satisfying way. One guy said it was like making love to him with my hands.

Most of the guys who come to me are married men who complain that their wives don't know how to touch them erotically. I also get guys with girlfriends who have the same problem. I've even written a book aimed at women explaining how to use touch to give a man pleasure.

A truly satisfying man to man massage is rewarding as well as being beneficial to your overall well being.

WHAT IS A SENSUAL MASSAGE?

WHAT EXACTLY IS A SENSUAL MASSAGE?  I get asked this question quite a lot.

I'm Rik Francis and specialise in man to man and gay massage in Auckland and you can contact me on 021 109 1058 and 550 4287.

Let me try and answer the question. The most common massage style for relaxation is Therapeutic, also known as Swedish. This involves medium pressure over the entire body. It is designed to stimulate the blood flow (like all massages do) but its main aim is to relax the client. For this reason no heavy pressure is applied at any time.

To get back to the question . I use Therapeutic touch but include SENSUAL TOUCH TECHNIQUE which I integrate throughout the hour. Sensual Touch Technique , also known as EROTIC MASSAGE, works parts of the body not included in any other massage type.  While studying the technique, I learned how important it is to work on these parts to achieve a totally satisfying massage.

Sensual Touch Technique involves light stroking and 'feathering' with finger tips. There are specific ways to do this and I have been taught how to apply it for maximum pleasure. The touching alternates between very light and medium pressure and various parts of the body are stimulated at specific times. I also alternate between Therapeutic and Sensual Touch during the entire hour. This is what makes it such a hit with all my clients.

I know once you try a sensual massage, you won't want to go back to any other modalities unless you need injuries treated, then a sports massage may be required. Having said, that. I can also do some 'target work' on areas that are tight, where stress has caused a 'knot'.

So there you have it. You can have your stiffness relieved at the same time as having the most pleasurable massage available anywhere.

MASSAGE STYLES

In this blog, I'd like to get a bit technical. I'm Rik Francis, an internationally experienced masseur specialising in man to man and gay massage in Auckland. If you want to try my pleasurable, relaxing and beneficial massage, I can be reached on 021 109 1058 and 550 4287.

There are currently over 70 massage modalities practiced. Among them are Stone Massage, Pregnancy Massage, Shiatsu, Thai Yoga Bodywork, Reflexology, Neuromuscular Therapy, Craniosacral Therapy and Reiki (just to name a few) 

A good massage course should teach the following:

Effleurage: This is the name given to gliding or stroking. This is the action I tend to use as it is both beneficial to the body and very pleasurable to feel.

Petrissage: This involves kneading and squeezing which is good for dissolving knots caused by tension.

Friction:  This is the name given to rubbing and pressing, the main action for a standard massage.

Tapotement: Is beating and percussion which is good for sports massage.

Massage courses don't teach the Sensual Touch Technique: This involves 'feathering' with the fingers to stimulate the nerve endings. This heightens sensitivity and makes the body very responsive to all touch. I use this extensively during my massages and learned it from a professional in men's body work in Canada.

Depending on the requirements of my clients, I can use a combination of the above techniques or selected ones. My aim is to provide the best massage you've ever had.

Today, massage has become a cornerstone of many people's good health practice.

MORE INTERESTING INFORMATION ON MASSAGE

Rik Francis with more history notes about massage. I'm an experienced masseur offering man to man and gay massage in Auckland 021 109 1058 and 550 4287

The Roman physician, Galen who lived between 130-201 AD wrote a number of medical and philosophical books and is regarded as one of the greatest medical historians and physicians of antiquity. A number of Emperors in the first century AD employed him as their doctor  and at the same time,   he was a physician to the gladiators of the Circus Maximus. While there, he developed a number of massage techniques for diseases and physical injuries. For this reason, he is recognised as the originator of Sports Massage. Galen was passionate about the profession he fine tuned and regarded it as essential in maintaining healthy muscles for gladiators and others involved in demanding physical work.

During the Dark Ages, life in Europe was deadened by conservative and repressive religious dogma. The population frowned upon any act that involved touching that felt pleasurable to the recipient. As a result, all forms of massage became unacceptable and often considered sinful.

A Swede, Pehr Heinrick Ling, is credited with re-introducing massage as a reputable manual therapy. It was during his work with athletes, specifically gymnasts, that he developed the soft tissue technique that became known as Swedish Massage. His work led to the establishment of the Royal Central Institute of Gymnastics in 1813. He is generally regarded as the ‘father of modern massage.’ because the techniques he developed are considered the foundation of all current therapeutic massage styles.

I can offer you a truly relaxing therapeutic massage. I can also include the 'sensual touch' technique that I integrate into the massage for added satisfaction and pleasure.

THE POWER OF MASSAGE

Hi, I'm Rik Francis, I specialise in man to man and gay massage in Auckland. 021 109 1058 and 550 4287 are my contact numbers. I wrote this article earlier and want to present it to you again because the content is so informative.

Massage has been practiced for over 5000 years. It was a popular form of therapy in both China and India. The ancient Egyptians considered it a precious gift and used it for health and beauty. In fact, Hippocrates, the Father of medicine stated, 'The way to health is having a scented bath and an oiled massage each day." His fellow Greeks used massage to strengthen their muscles before sports.

Massage is calming and soothing and helps people release anxiety and overcome depression. It allows them to more easily deal with everyday problems and also helps boost their general confidence.

There are various types of massage from therapeutic to Swedish, deep tissue and remedial. Each style is used to achieve specific results. Sensual touch massage adds another dimension by generating a higher degree of pleasure and satisfaction.

                                                                THE IMPORTANCE OF TOUCH

Touching is more important than most people imagine. It is one of the first senses to develop and is vital throughout life. Communicating by touch is learned from birth and is an important way for children to discover how their physical world works and interacts with them.. By the time they become teenagers, touch is generally discouraged becoming unfortunately unacceptable in many societies. Many believe if young children are given too much touching they could become spoiled. Touching young boys might turn them into “sissies“ which of course, is not true!

                                                           

                                                TOUCH IS NURTURING

Touch is a form of nourishment. A lack of caring touch will lead eventually to stress and is often substituted by hitting or fighting, or even throwing tantrums just to gain much needed physical contact and attention. In recent times many refugee orphans in some war torn countries were becoming extremely ill and even dying from lack of touch due to the fact that they had lost their families and they had nobody who really cared for them.

Massage is an important way to nurture every adult by showing they are worthy of touching care. It is one of the best forms of therapy and can be enormously positive for everyone who enjoys the magic of human touch..